* cmake : add helper for faster CUDA builds
* batched : add NGL arg
* ggml : skip nops in compute_forward
* cuda : minor indentation
* cuda : batched cuBLAS GEMMs for src0 F16 and src1 F32 (attention ops)
* Apply suggestions from code review
These changes plus:
```c++
#define cublasGemmBatchedEx hipblasGemmBatchedEx
```
are needed to compile with ROCM. I haven't done performance testing, but it seems to work.
I couldn't figure out how to propose a change for lines outside what the pull changed, also this is the first time trying to create a multi-part review so please forgive me if I mess something up.
* cuda : add ROCm / hipBLAS cublasGemmBatchedEx define
* cuda : add cublasGemmStridedBatchedEx for non-broadcasted cases
* cuda : reduce mallocs in cublasGemmBatchedEx branch
* cuda : add TODO for calling cublas from kernel + using mem pool
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Co-authored-by: Kerfuffle <44031344+KerfuffleV2@users.noreply.github.com>